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Seeking Spirituality

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I've talked a lot in the past year about change....me changing.  I've changed my eating habits, fitness routines, etc.  I've felt pretty good about myself in the last six to eight months.  But something was missing.  Something.... I have always be a church goer.  I was raised in church.  I raised my kids in church.  I have always been a believer.  But while working a part time job on weekends for many years, I had no Sundays free to attend church.  This allowed me to break the habit of going regularly.  And once that habit is broken, it just becomes a new routine not to go to church every Sunday.  Now please don't think I am using this as an excuse.  It's not an excuse.  It's what happened to me.  Realizing that something was missing in my life, I started contemplating returning to church.  But as much as I love the church I was raised in, I felt that I needed to explore other options.  I needed somethin...

Confessions of a Recovering Sugar Junkie

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Sugar can be addicting...true or false?   I have always had a sweet tooth.  As a child, I was a sugar junkie... no really!  I. LOVED. SUGAR.  (Still do actually!)  As an adult, growing older, I became "pre-diabetic" with warnings from the Doctor to cut back on the sugar or I would be diabetic soon.  So as a side effect of my new healthy lifestyle, I changed those important numbers on that blood test, and am no longer "pre-diabetic".  Yay me, right?  Absolutely.  I no longer craved sugar.  No longer needed sugar.  Until.... Ok, so over the holidays, I indulged in cookies, candy, sweet punches, cakes, etc.  Having lost 42 pounds, I felt like I deserved those treats.  And I worked out like a crazy person to counteract those extra calories.  I put on 2 pounds over the month of December.  And that's ok.  Not bad really.  I will take those off quickly, so no worries.  However, the one thing that d...

Goals, Resolutions, and Auld Lang Syne

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It's 8AM on December 31st, 2017.  When I asked Alexa to start my day, she started singing Auld Lang Syne.  So that started me thinking.  What does it really mean?  We all sing it, but do we know what it means?  Roughly translated, it means "for old times' sake". Should old acquaintance be forgot, and never brought to mind? Should old acquaintance be forgot, and old lang syne? For auld lang syne, my dear, for auld lang syne, we'll take a cup of kindness yet, for auld lang syne. And surely youll buy your pint cup! and surely Ill buy mine! And we'll take a cup o kindness yet, for auld lang syne. Looking at the lyrics makes me want to warmly remember old friends, appreciate new friends, and hug my family.  Maybe I'm just being sentimental this morning.  I'm missing my Son and Punkins who are usually here for New Year's Eve.  It's when we do our big Petty Family Christmas.  Maybe it's because we are coming to th...

Reflections on 2017 ~ Thank You Friends and Family!

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As 2017 is coming quickly to an end, and 2018 looms large in front of us, it's a natural time for reflection, for fond memories, and for saying thank you to those who have been good to us this year. For what seems like many years now, I've approached the end of the year with some regret, wishing I had accomplished more.  Not so this year.  Not so at all.  This has been my year.  My year of change.  My year of accomplishment. When 2017 began, I had the normal resolutions....lose weight, get healthy, be a better person, appreciate life more, etc., etc.  Then I turned 60 in March.  60!  I have lived six decades!  Whoa! Sixty hit me hard...but not in a bad way.  It woke me up.  If I was going to get healthy, now was the time!  So I set out to walk several times a week, do yoga, and eat healthier.  Well, let me tell you how that went down!  Walking led to running, eating healthier led to weight loss, weight loss led ...

My Parents....A 70 Year Love Story

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A couple of Sundays ago, we held a party for my parents who recently celebrated 70 years of marriage.  SEVENTY years....let that sink in for a minute.  Here's their story.  Enjoy! Seventy years ago, two “kids” fell in love and were married, after meeting at an after church gathering.   As the story of the wedding day goes, the Preacher had to be called in from the field where he had been working, to perform the ceremony.   Now some of us wouldn ’t want the one officiating at our wedding to be wearing his dirty overalls while marrying us.   But these two crazy 18 year olds didn ’t mind.   They were in love and that ’s all that mattered! I ’m sure they had their dreams, their visions of what their life would be like.   I ’m also sure they differed greatly from what brides and grooms of today might be dreaming of.   The world 70 years ago was a vastly different place.   It was the era of the Cold War.   Truman was Presiden...

Decision Made!

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"Whatever it is you really want for your life, remember, you have the power to make a decision to go for it. Whether you want to go back to school, change your financial situation, improve your relationships, or live a healthier lifestyle, it all starts with a decision."  Valorie Burton, Author and Life Coach. This above statement hit home with me in a big way when I saw it!  And since I am marking a full year since I made a decision to improve my life, I thought this was the perfect time to tell my story.  So, here we go. Exactly one year ago, I made a decision.  It was a minor decision at the time, made without much thought.  If I had only known how this decision would grow!  And grow it did, into a major life change!  I decided to start becoming more active.  Yoga was a good place to start, I thought.  So I started taking yoga twice a week, and absolutely loved it!  It was good for mind, body and soul!  And then about once a ...

What Does My Life Motto REALLY Mean?

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For anyone who has been reading my blogs of late, you might have noticed a recurring theme...change.  Yes, I am changing.  To some in my family this has become a source of concern.  "Why is Linda doing some of these things?"  "She's getting very brave!" So I thought I would try to explain this by using my Life Motto.  Now, this Life Motto of mine is not new.  I didn't make it up.  It's been around a long time.  I actually have had a wall hanging of it in my house for a very long time.  This quote first appeared in a book by    Hunter S. Thompson ,  The Proud Highway: Saga of a Desperate Southern Gentleman, 1955-1967 .   In researching this author, I found that he used mind altering drugs (LSD), and ended his own life at the age of 68.  So while I'm not really sure what this quote meant to him, I can assure you that to me it means embracing life, not ending it. Here's the quote I'm speaking of: This quote always ...